When a loved one dies, you may experience a wide range of emotions, from confusion to anger to sadness. All these feelings are normal. You may also feel isolated or alone — even if you have family members or loved ones who are grieving right alongside you.
Our grief support groups in NYC can connect you with others who have had similar experiences. The groups can help you navigate your own grief and feel less alone.
Getting support from others doesn’t always mean going to group meetings. We offer grief counseling and bereavement programs throughout the year like walks, workshops, and full-day mindfulness retreats.
VNS Health provides grief support for 13 months following the loss of a loved one in hospice care. Even if you don’t want to participate in our program right away, you are welcome to contact VNS Health at any time during that 13-month period.
How Can Grief Support Groups Help?
VNS Health grief support groups are gatherings of people who have lost someone they love. Because of this shared experience, participants can offer support, comfort, and encouragement — and receive the same benefits in return.
Grief support groups can also provide you with helpful advice, such as coping strategies and ways to practice self-care. When others share their experiences, you can gain insight into what might help you on your own journey.
Finally, grief support groups help you feel less alone. Hearing from and connecting with others who have faced similar experiences can remind you that healing is possible. You will also realize that your grief is unique and that, with support, you will get through this process in your own way.
I have heard from many support group participants how VNS Health groups have validated their grief experience and provided social connection during the long and difficult period of isolation due to the COVID-19 pandemic.
Willis Partington, VNS Health Lead Bereavement Counselor
Because VNS Health offers grief support for 13 months, our groups can help you get through the milestones and anniversaries of the first year without your loved one — including the first anniversary of your loved one’s death. Being part of a support group means you won’t have to experience those firsts alone.
What Happens at Grief Support Groups?
During support group meetings, you may want to talk about your loved one or how their loss is affecting you. You may also prefer to simply listen to others as they share their thoughts and feelings. There is no right or wrong way to attend a grief support group. You can participate in whatever way feels the most comfortable to you.
A skilled bereavement counselor (an expert who is trained in providing grief counseling) will lead the group. However, the voices of other participants are a key part of bereavement support groups.
Four Ways to Get the Most Out of Grief Support Groups
- Attend your support group as regularly as possible. This will help you get to know other members and make you feel more comfortable.
- Use other members as a resource. Listen to others as they share their journeys, and take what you need to support your own grieving.
- Participate in discussions when you feel ready. By sharing your thoughts and experiences, you can help others and gain insight into your own emotions.
- Remember why you joined a grief support group. When you’re feeling particularly down, remind yourself how your support group has helped you maintain a sense of hope.
Grief Support Groups FAQs
Here are a few frequently asked questions to help you decide if and when a VNS Health grief support group can help you during your grieving process.
Most of our grief support groups meet online, via Zoom. Our other programs, like walks, mindfulness retreats, and certain specialty groups, take place throughout Brooklyn, Queens, Manhattan, the Bronx, and Staten Island.
It depends on which group you join. We have groups that meet weekly, every other week, or once a month. We also have special focused bereavement support groups that meet on a few scheduled dates.
It’s OK if you can’t come to every meeting. However, we recommend coming regularly to get the most out of grief support.
If your loved one received care from VNS Health, you can take advantage of our grief support groups.
We want to provide grief support to as many people as possible. If your loved one did not receive care from VNS Health, but you’re interested in one of our support groups, please email the group leader to confirm that space is available. Contact information for each group is available on our calendar.
VNS Health grief support groups are free of charge to anyone who is interested. Because groups can fill up quickly, please email us to reserve a spot. Contact information for each group is available on our calendar.
We offer a wide range of grief support groups to meet your needs. For instance, we offer support groups specific to certain relationships, such as groups for people who have lost a:
- Parent
- Spouse or partner
- Sibling
- Adult child
We offer bereavement support groups in different languages, including Spanish and Chinese, and a men’s support group. In addition, we offer workshops on topics such as stress management, coping with grief, and the holidays, as well as workshops incorporating topics such as mindfulness and reiki.
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Download our Grief Support Group Calendar to find a grief support group near you. If it’s difficult for you to travel or there isn’t a group near you, you can always join our online grief support groups.
To register, use the contact information for the specific group, which is available on our calendar.
To learn more about grief support groups, send us a message through our online contact form or call us at 1-212-609-1900.
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